Why a Hotwife Relationship is the Best Way to Deal with Cheating
Being cheated on in a relationship is one of the most heartbreaking and discouraging things that can happen to anyone. In our traditional monogamous arrangement we dedicate ourselves to one person, and if we want to move on to someone else, we break off our existing engagement first. So what is it exactly that causes a woman to cheat on her man? Plenty of so-called experts have tried to answer the question, bringing forth many interesting suggestions, most of them having to do with emotional, spiritual or sexual un-fulfillment after the relationship turns stale. However, recently the researchers at the University of Texas have conducted a clinical trial and believe that in reality, genetics are the real culprit.
Back to Our Ancestors
What exactly do genetics have to do with cheating on someone? Well, what drives us as living beings is the innate desire to survive as a species and pass on our lineage, and to accomplish that we must reproduce with adequate mating partners. Today, we have the luxury of trying our luck with one person, and then moving on to the next one without having lost much.
However, back in the rough, violent and unpredictable days of our ancestors things were quite different. Diseases were rampant, access to healthcare was quite minimal (and in many cases, a risky endeavor), and following a healthy diet wasn’t exactly possible, meaning many people died between the ages of thirty to forty. In those circumstances, finding suitable mating partners was more difficult as well as urgent, which is why researchers believe women used a non-monogamous approach to keep their options open. Thus, if a woman’s preferred suitor became permanently indisposed, she would instantly be able to find someone else to fulfill her needs.
How Can We Deal with It?
While the practice of monogamy has taken over the modern world, the genetic programming has persisted and so cases of cheating can’t seem to stop. The best course of action would be to take the opposite route and make her a hotwife. While it does sound counter-intuitive, taking the hotwife approach and encouraging her to sleep around with others will actually improve your relationship in a few ways:
• You will both slowly become sexually emboldened and sleeping together will turn into a much more adventurous and satisfying affair.
• Her attraction to you will increase for the strength and confidence of character you display in allowing her to sleep with other men. Keep in mind that in many cases the hotwife doesn’t sleep around with other people all that much; it’s the psychological aspect of being free to choose that’s important.
• Finally, you’ll also gain a big boost to your own sense of security and self-esteem. Seeing your wife blossom emotionally and sexually while knowing she chooses to be with you when she could be with anyone else is a difficult experience to properly quantify, but one you won’t forget anytime soon for the peace of mind it brings.